The Guide to Connection

Part 1think through the learning.
Pulling on the Reins - Why We Resist Learning NewHave you ever watched a good skier coming down a
Methodsmogul hill? It's poetry, and their bodies just intuitively
We've all done it at some point; our horse doesn't stopunderstand the reaction to obtaining the fluidity needed.
at exactly the time and place we want, so we resortOr the show jumper, whose rider flows with him, jump
to the 'classic' two-hand 'yard' on his face.after jump, never hindering the horse.
Although it felt like the appropriate thing to do at theThis is the response to practicing training methods that
time, there is a better way.work. It is simply NOT about practicing. It's about
Why is it that we instinctively use both hands to stop apracticing the correct way, every time. So for us
horse? It's a gut reaction for everyone who has notmortals, it's important to understand not just the lesson,
had the training otherwise. It is the first thing a newbut HOW we take in a lesson. Knowing and
rider will do when they sit on a horse for the first time.understanding the mechanics behind learning often
Good horse training methods require us to drop ourcomfort us when we are first faced with the challenge
instinctive reactions in trade for a purposeful, thoughtfulof accepting new information as a truth. It's not about
proactive response. I believe this is one of the biggestus being too stupid to learn new things, but allowing the
barriers for riders learning new training skills. At first, ittime necessary for our brains to shift gears and learn
feels like you are losing control, as it doesn't alwayshow to learn.
make sense, especially in the process of learning howIn order to work with horses, it takes a reversal or shift
to stop a horse. A runaway horse is one of thein thinking. For older beginners, this can be a bigger
biggest dangers riders face, and it's on the top ofchallenge. There are reasons why learning when you
every new riders mind as they mount for the first feware young pays off (so get the kids off the couch
times.NOW). It's not just about the single subject, but also the
What eventually happens, (if you continue the theoriesability to 'learn how to learn' that you carry with you
of trainers who have made a name for themselves bythrough life.
teaching and delivering results), is a pattern consistentIt's teaching your brain to absorb things that don't make
in all learning. The brain takes in new informationsense at first. It's the ability to accept the introduction
logically first. As the new pattern of learning isof new methods. And it's the time necessary for the
introduced, the brain absorbs, and after a while, movesbody to intrinsically respond.
into the creative part of your brain. This is where allMind, soul and body - working together.
learning and mechanics (movements) become 'intrinsic',This is how we grow.
or where the human no longer needs to ponder or