How to Choose the Perfect Horse For Your Child

So, you have a horse crazy child, and you are thinkinglook at his age. Not that there can't be a great kid's
about getting him or her that first horse. Whether youhorse that is younger than 6, but it would be much less
have experience with horses or not, finding the perfectcommon. I don't discount the older horses at all, even
horse for your child can be like finding a needle in thethe much older horses. My daughters all learned to ride
proverbial haystack. There is no shortage of horseson horses that were 20 years old and older. These
and ponies that are advertised as "kid safe".horses were worth their weight in gold, and they took
Unfortunately, the actual percentage of horses thatcare of my girls. In return, we gave them a loving
are truly "kid safe" is very small. Here are some tips onhome in their golden years with light work, good feed,
finding that perfect horse or pony that will become aand lots of love. We lost the last of these great
member of your family and take care of your precioushorses at the ripe old age of 36. The criteria I
little one.mentioned before still apply to these older horses; you
First of all, consider the age and skills of your child. Fordon't want one that is highly spirited, and some are,
a very young child who hasn't had lessons ineven at 20+years.
horsemanship, an older "babysitter" horse is a must.Also of equal importance is the horse's training. "Whoa"
Often there is a misconception that like with puppies,is much more important than "Go". The horse should
young horses and children can grow up together. Ahave a good handle, and he should be easy to stop
young horse needs the guidance and experience of aand steer. A horse that is hard to control is not only
trainer or very experienced rider. It takes manyfrustrating for a child, but dangerous as well.
months, even years of training to teach a horse his job,Then, I look at the overall condition of the horse. Does
and this is something well beyond the scope of anhe have any lameness issues? Some very mild
inexperienced child. A "been there, done that" type oflameness in a kid's horse wouldn't necessarily be
horse is much better suited to a young orcause for me to rule him out. A veterinary inspection
inexperienced rider.should be done prior to purchase to rule out any
I initially look for several things when considering a safe,serious health issues. Lastly, and probably most
kid's horse. First of all, the temperament of the horse isimportantly, your child should be comfortable with the
crucial. Will he stand tied quietly (for hours) withouthorse and you both should feel safe with him. If
getting impatient, pulling back, or jumping around? Is hepossible, a trial period of a week or two would be ideal.
calm under pressure, like loud noises, suddenThat way, you can determine if the horse or pony is a
movements, and being touched all over? He should begood match for your child. I always encourage
easy and safe to saddle, bridle, have his feet handled,horsemanship lessons because knowledge and safety
easy to catch, and trailer load.are the key to a great relationship with horses. When
Then I look at his past history. What has he been usedyou find the perfect kid's horse for your child, you will
for? A horse that has had a lot of miles on him maybe amazed at the partnership and bond they will form
be a good bet. If he's been sitting in a pasture fortogether, and the peace of mind you will have knowing
much of his life, he doesn't have the exposure to thethat your child is being taken care of by his equine
many situations that an old veteran may have. I alsofriend.